YOU are in charge
To create ANYTHING -- First create it in your mind.
Example: You want to build your dream house. Sit in a chair, close your eyes, see what you want. You know there's a bay window behind you - you're sitting on the couch in front of it, you know the kitchen is straight across from you, the door to the right leads down to the family room, the stairs farther right lead up to the bedrooms and the stairs beside them go down to the three car garage. You KNOW where it all is.
Now, draw some pictures looking down at it (the floor plan) with measurements on them. Take your pictures to an architect - he understands the stresses involved and materials required - he will draw you a set of blueprints. Take the blueprints to a house builder, the kitchen plans to a cabinet maker, the color scheme to the decorator. Let them do their work.
Come move in day, what are you moving into?? YOUR dream house -- no one elses.
There are a few little things to do before you build that house lol. Take a look at your LIFE. This one is more like planning a trip - you know where you want to go -- so for a trip you get out the map and plot the way. With life, you have to DRAW the map. Same story - imagine where you want to go, what you want to be, work backwards step by step. What did you have to learn to get to where you are?? (in your mind) Draw the map back to today. When you get lost - refer to the map. Life will put mountains,lakes and sheer drop off cliffs in your road. Refer to the map. Get back on track. NEVER QUIT!! Winners never quit, and quitters never win. 'n by the way - you've been a winner since the very moment of conception, you just beat millions of other tadpoles to that egg. GOOD LORD!! Dont quit now!!
Reggie Baker (inthistogether)